If you can accidentally bite your tongue....What more with husbands and wives...

There is so many things that i wanna type it out...but...something across my mind... elders told me b4 i'm married...tell nobody about ur husband weaknesses...but.. whom i want to share with??? is this what we call relationship between husband n wives???

My Dear God...please show me the way...do i have to surrender?? or stand not to talk to him?? my marriage just only less than 4 weeks....i don't even know what to do..what to say...

The song represent my situation now....i try my best to translate it in English... this song by Tan Sri P.Ramlee duet with his beloved wife..Puan Sri Saloma... here it goes..

If you can accidentally bite your tongue
What more with husbands and wives
If you can accidentally bite your tongue
What more with husbands and wives

Forget the bad
Remember the good
Then you'll build up character
Forget the bad
Remember the good
Then you'll build up character

What's the use of us fighting
Husbands and wives should be patient
What's the use of us fighting
Husbands and wives should be patient

With love and affection
Peace and understanding
It's like living in a palace
Forget the bad
Remember the good
Then you'll build up character

Husbands and wives must be one
Then the marriage will be blessed
Husbands and wives must be one
Then the marriage will be blessed
Why should we quarrel
If we want to live peacefully
Fogive me, dear husband

Ur Dear wife.........