Petua Membina Rumah Tangga Bahagia

DIPETIK DARI Berita Harian, ISNIN, 10 NOVEMBER 2008
here some tips that i like to share...
1. BERBICARA
Berbicara dengan lemah lembut, memanggil dengan nama kesayangan serta memandang dengan penuh kasih sayang antara suami dan isteri.

tp...JANGAN LA SAMPAI MCM NI....!!!


2. Membersihkan Diri
Penampilan rapi dan bersih, berhias dan memakai wangi-wangian terhadap pasangan.. (this is really important for wived...< aku rasela...so jgn nak melawa when wanna go out je..kene lawa2 setiap masa..especially..at home)

3. Jujur
Jujur & amanah, jgn memandang rendah terhadap pasangan, saling mengalah & memaafkan (this is the hard part for...am i stubborn??) & paling penting perhatikan kelebihan pasangan malah sekirangan ada kekurangan segera tutupi ia daripada pengetahun org lain...(part ni maybe it's not a problem for me..because im da best secret keeper in da worl..hehehe)

4. Jangan!
mencela masakan isteri, beruaha meringankan beban kerja pasangan, tidak membandingkannya dgn org lain serta menjauhi hal-hal yg menimbulkan kecemburuan pasangan....< i did before..early of our marriage...thanks hubby for ur apologies...

5. Selalu
berpegangan tgn, berurau senda, saling membelai kerana dengan cara ini pasangan akan merasai dirinya sentiasa diperlukan. < bab ni yang aku really fail...napelah aku camni...x retilah nk tunjuk kasih syg secara 'life' depan hubby ni... but..i do really love him...

6. Jadikan
kamar tidur tempat yg paling bersih, harum dan masa yg menyenangkan pasangan. < this is totally 100% i can do..heheh mengemas bilik n rumah...i like!!

7. Saling
menasihati dan cuba meringankan beban yang ditanggung pasangan.

8. Peruntukkan
waktu khusus bersama pasangan seperti makan bersama, solat berjemaah pada waktu tertentu seperti maghrib dan isya'(i've always done this with my hubby...its really peaceful and calm when a husband kiss me on my forehead...mase ni lah yg paling aku suke..hehe rase cam my hubby really love me..and his kiss is very honest this time....ni ape yg aku rasela..heheh), bersiar-siar bersama dengan anak di taman < ni belum lg..xde anak lg nk bawak n xde mase lg nk kuar beriadah ni...

9. Saling
mendoakan dan merindui apabila berjauhan...(alhamdulillah yg ni aku buat insyaAllah..even ade kdg2 dah lupa...coz baru lg kawen..lama2 dah jd biase n aku xkan lupa utk doakan my beloved husband.)

mY W33k3nD act!v!ty

its a bored weekend....because my husband get cold..huhuh..pity him.... shian abg demam...(actually pity me coz i have to wake up at night..kene amik air la...ubat la..< hish!!! x baik mastura ni..merungut...hilang pahala.) so i don't know what to do...then...edit gambar la... since i've got all my wedding pic @ kelantan now...ape lg...pegi kedai gmbr..print 100 of my weding pic @ kelantan and susun dlm album... biaselah kan...baru2 kawen..sukelah tgk gmbr weding sndr...heheheh setahun dua nnt...xtau la..

before that..on saturday aku bujang!...hehehe so one of my fren "najmi" remebered that i told her "i'm single on saturday"..then send a message and tell me that she wanna come to my my home...unfortunately...my husband x keje...dia demam...so..hang out for a while dgn najmi...round2 kat metro point je and have a simple dinner together...lama dah x jumpa ko...mgu ni do come to my home k?? aku masakkan ko mi sup ke..mihun sup ke...k?? heheh. kali ni dtg tau!...ko nk tgk gmbr kan?? leh la tgk skali...lepaking kat umah aku lama skit...sure hubby aku got a very busy weekend again..n b4 that, i have to accompany my mom to balik kg, visit nenek cause she fell after accidentally step on kitty...nasib x mati...nenek dah la ge**k...huhuhu. kaki nenek bengkak...shian my fatty granny...but it is slowly recover...nenek can walk as usual now, only a bit slow...slower than me..hehehe

x sabar tgu my niece and nephew come for eid adha celebration...windu sgt kat eiya...
then nnt kite leh g jln2..n shopping2...heheh (nak bwk g mane ek?? me myself pon lama dah x kluar....)

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Maybank Berwajah Baru....

dah lama dah sebenarnya...x silap aku...sejak dr 15/10 lepas...so inilah wajah abru maybank..aku saje je letak kat sni sbb to inform to those of my fren yg xtau lg the new look of maybank....tp lepas login...dia masuk ke maybank classic gak...huhuhuh

My Car...Having Probl3m.....

this is the second time this thing happen to me...i don't know why...geram gilerz!!! but lucky im reach my office... kalo x...tersadai tgh jln...mau aku meroyan...huhhu. starting from the new alarm system that i bought to replace the original alarm system set by proton...hurm.... x sangka jadi mcm ni...aku bukan saje2 nk tukar alarm lain...but it is because of the battery...tetibe je alarm tu berbunyi bile ganti battery baru...x leh nk matikan bunyi..till bring it to mechanics... lastly the mechanics cut the wire and shutdown the alarm...tula yg jd n sebab2 n punca2 nape aku tukar alarm tu... try to on and use it back..but it useless... so pasang the new one...x smp setahun pakai....battery rosak balik...tensennye...battery mcm habis....alarm does not function...then change batter...another Rm250.... aku masih bersabar....then da last 2 months...da same thing happen again... another 250 fly....argghhh!!!!... ni yg x tahan ni...money just of the reason yg buatkan aku tension! but the main reason is... AKU X SUKE KETE ROSAK!!!... aku dah anta kat pomen yg same..dia mmg bagus...slame ni dia yg buat hal2 kete family aku...besides... he is my hubby's partner....shis share partner of his workshop... nasibla my hubby from aotomotif background...kalo x...sengal gak rasenye...if dia pon xtau ape2..n x kenal sape2...hurm..lg teruk jdnye..

so harini bende tu jd lgi....n the mechanics confirm that it must be the alternator problem....ape2pon aku x kisah la..janji problem kete aku setel.... tkr je la alternator tu....maybe thats because of it...im sick of having problem about my car anymore...sbb tersadai kat opis lame2 ni...menyakitkan hati.... elok aku tdo kat umah je...

maybe harini aku balik tumpang my bos....tgkla mcm mane...aku mls nk sshkan org...even bos aku mmg tumpang aku slame ni on da way balik keje coz hubby dia lmbt....segan plak..tgkla..if terpase..aku tmpg gak..huhuhu. -END-

Tuesday

there is so many things to do...but there is no mood to do anything....arghh!!!!!!!.. why??...why??....why??!!!... where is my mood?? please..please come back to me!!! so many things need to be done today....


this pic must be same with me rite now...waaaaaaaaaaaa....waaaaaaaaaaaaa.... only that i cannot sleep on my desk.... nanti nmpk bos..matilah aku!!!
whatever it is..i paid for this job...so weather i have mood or not... i have to complete my work... hurm..

to get my mood today...i do some edit on my pic... on my wedding @ kelantan.... here some of them...i merge them 2gether and put it here... so for some of my fren which request to see my wedding pic @ kelatntan, here for you guys... i'm also upload it in my freindster...so enjoy browse my page...!

mY W33kEnd....

Congrates for my freind Fariza... for her wedding ceremony on last saturday @ Putrajaya public hall... really sweet couple both of you guys... hope there is no ending luv story... met my old freind there...but we are rushing to go to other open house...so we don't have time to take picture with the groom and the bride... then lastly we all went to my house...coz my frens on this pic below want to see my wedding album...cbuk je!!! hehehe...but there is no pic on kelantan's wedding..don't have time to print out those pic anymore..maybe next week...



and for the sunday...the luvly day...i made my first MeeHoon Soup...in malay mihun sup!! heheeh. i use meat ball to replace the fresh meat...(oa i don't like meat) and adding some mini ketupat..so it become Soto... nyum2! hehehe

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M33t mY n!3ce..

Hi... my world bright again... miss my beautiful LAILA so much!! and lastly i met her...yesterday when i took an EL and join my family to go to Penang.... there is so many things happen in our family for the last 3 years...but thank god... all those problems seems to be handle by my family including me...here is a life... a really real life...luv my life..luv my story and really luv my family... after this..i'll be always beside my LAILA... im really proud of my niece...she got 5A's in each exam for every years...and her elder brother who is called abg ngah managed to get 5A in UPSR last year and be the 7th best student in his school....

now, i have 14 nephew together with my new born niece..Rabiyatul Adawiyah....

something that i cannot share here..the problems...whats are the problems that actually happen?? beside my family...only god knows everything...

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